The rebound...

How do you actually get over your relationship? Saw this movie called the rebound long time back.. Kinda liked it.  Bt at frst thot that sch a concept of gettin over or movin on frm a past relation might jst b in the movies... Hmmm thinkin abt that movie today nt because i m searchin fr ways to move on bt because last nite talkin to frnds all of a sudden sch a topic came up. And to my surprise the way is to have rebounds... Nt jst one bt as many till u finally get over it..  It was actually vry strange  fr me.  Call it my ignorance call it my purani soch but i feel that its wrng... I feel its wrng to use sumone else's feelimgs to jst to hurt them so that u feel relaxed!! I mean seriously yaar...if u cud nt harm a person back who hurt u bad then u go nd take it out on sumone who genuinely cares fr u!!! Nahi yaar thats wrng... U r jst tryin to satisfy ur own ego that nobody hurts or uses u.. Its u who cn use n throw sumone away nd nt nyone else doin the same to u!! Wht kind of thinkin is it?? I dnt knw may b they r rite fr many ppl but thn i hv this belief that the way u treat others, at the end of all this... U ll end up wearin the shoes of that person.. Jst like they say treat everyone the way u wanna be treated.
To all this my frnd says no jst go around wid sumone whose motive is the same!! Oh please yaar.... U never knw when u might jst get those unattached strings attached.. I mean y to even risk it all nd end up bein in the same mess that u wanted to clean up???
Nd like i read on my fav blogger's blog
"ur umpteenth fling cud be sumones frst luv.. Be sensitive:)"
nd thats true because luv steps in when its least expected!!!